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reject the ordinary

reject the ordinary

vintage and second-hand items with grit, history and soul: take a stand against conformity and fast-fashion. 

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& so are you was founded in 2025 by Italian-British costumier Cristina Talan (nee Soru)

& so are you curates and sells designer fashion and true vintage

Favouring fashion institutions such as Alexander McQueen, Vivienne Westwood and John Galliano, we also seek out true vintage pieces from all periods in order to curate collections that are simultaneously high quality, eclectic, timeless and modern.

We are proud to be based in Portland, USA

about the company

True style starts with the freedom to be yourself, on your own terms.

We celebrate individuality and the power of choosing small, independent businesses over fast fashion giants. Every purchase made with us supports a slower, more intentional way of consuming fashion—one that values people, stories, and craftsmanship over mass production.

Clothing is more than fabric—it's our armour. It offers us comfort, utility, and the quiet strength to show up confidently in the world. Whether you're dressing to blend in or stand out, we believe clothes can transform the way we feel about ourselves.

Clothing is political. In an era of climate crisis, what we wear—and where it comes from—matters deeply. We advocate for a more sustainable future by embracing circular fashion, encouraging people to shop vintage and pre-loved, and helping reduce the fashion industry’s heavy carbon footprint—one garment at a time.

Clothing is a message. It tells the world who we are, what we value, and how we choose to show up. From the smallest detail to the boldest silhouette, each piece speaks volumes before we even say a word.

Clothing is history. Each vintage garment carries echoes of the past—ideas, art, culture, and identity woven into its seams. Garments are a living archive of the human experience, and through it, we honour the stories that came before us while writing our own.

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frequently asked questions

When will my item ship?

We aim to dispatch online orders within 24 hours of purchase. All orders placed after 11 am on Friday are not guaranteed to ship until the following Monday.

All UPS Next day Air orders must be placed before 2 pm for next-day delivery*

*Please note, there is no weekend delivery for UPS Next Day Air. Any orders placed after 2 pm Thursday will deliver the following Monday or Tuesday.

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Do you ship internationally?

We offer free International Shipping with UPS Worldwide expedited to AUS/CA/UK for orders over $300.

PLEASE NOTE all international orders are subject to duties/customs taxes on delivery (DDU), customs fees are at the expense of the customer. The customer is responsible for knowing the customs policy unique to their country.

Late Arrival: Please follow the tracking number associated with your order sent in the shipping confirmation email. If the package is pending, please check with your local customs office, as it maybe held there.

We are not responsible for a lack of communication from the international customs office and the client. If the package is sent back due to a lack of communication we are not liable for a lost return shipment AND will be subjected to a restocking fee of the cost of the return shipping fee.

Packages returned to us due to refusal to pay duties/customs taxes or lack of communication will be deducted for the amount of return shipping and any taxes imposed on return to the US. Extensive tracking available with UPS.

Shipping services: UPS worldwide expedited 2-5 business days (not guaranteed)

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what happens if my package is lost?

Due to the ever growing demand for online shopping, major carriers (USPS, FedEx, UPS, DHL) are currently operating beyond their usual capacity. We kindly ask for your patience as we work alongside you to investigate any issues related to delayed or missing packages.

Important Notice: & so are you is not responsible for lost or stolen parcels. If tracking information shows the package as "DELIVERED" to the address provided at checkout, liability falls neither on the carrier nor on & so are you. All shipments are scanned at multiple points in transit, including a final scan at your mailbox prior to delivery.

We strongly recommend enrolling in email or text notifications through the carrier’s tracking portal. In many cases, a package marked as delivered may have been mistakenly left with a neighbour or nearby address — please check with them and your local mail carrier first. Allow up to 48 hours in case of an attempted redelivery.

If your package remains missing, please file a lost item claim directly with the carrier. Once you’ve submitted the claim, contact us to explore next steps. We’re committed to assisting you in recovering your package. If you’ve previously experienced package theft, let us know — we’re happy to add a complimentary signature required option to your order.



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do you offer returns?

As a micro small business, we understand that occasionally an item may not be quite right, and we do offer refunds where appropriate. However, we kindly ask that you shop mindfully, as frequent returns have a significant impact on our operations.

We take great care to provide accurate descriptions, detailed photographs, and precise measurements to help you make an informed decision. We strongly encourage you to read all product information thoroughly before purchasing. For guidance on how to measure yourself at home, please refer to our measurement guide. If you have any doubts or questions, we warmly invite you to contact us before placing your order—we’re here to assist.

Click here to see our full returns policy.

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what if my order is damaged en route?

If your order arrives damaged please immediately contact us at cristina@soareyoupdx.com within five days of delivery. We also recommend sending us a picture of the broken item. We will provide a shipping label for the item to be mailed back to us.

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how do you define an item's condition?

Admire the character and honour the history — but be clear on what you're investing in.

All items are sold in their current or ‘as is’ state: each piece has been professionally cleaned and carefully repaired where necessary.

CONDITION GUIDE

Mint: never been worn or flawless condition

Excellent: expected minor signs of wear taking into account age, not significant enough to be noticeable

Very good: shows wear, shown in photos or expressed in description but overall doesn’t heavily impact garment quality

Good: wearable, but has noticeable flaws in photos or expressed in caption

Fair: for display, repair or study purposes only

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can you guarantee authenticity?

No guesswork here — just the good stuff. Every item goes through our signature authentication process, backed by years of vintage know-how and a serious eye for detail.

All of our items are guaranteed authentic. Due to the age and second-hand nature of our pieces, original proof of purchase or authenticity cards are typically not available unless specifically noted in the product description. This does not affect the authenticity of the item.

DISCLAIMER
& so are you is an independent business and is not affiliated, associated, or officially connected with any of the brands featured or sold on our website.

All items are pre-owned; trademarks and copyrights remain the property of their respective brand owners.

Our authentication process is carried out using our expertise and in-depth knowledge of vintage designer goods. The brands mentioned are not involved in or accountable for our authentication assessments.





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can you help me find a specific item?

Absolutely! We offer a complimentary sourcing service.

Just get in touch with the details of what you're looking for, and we’ll do our best to track it down. As vintage pieces are often rare and one-of-a-kind, we can’t guarantee availability within a specific time frame—but we’ll keep a lookout for you.

If we’re able to locate your requested item, a non-refundable holding deposit will be required until the purchase is finalized.

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how do i properly look after my garment?

Proper care and cleaning can extend the life of your garments and reduce unnecessary environmental impact. While it's tempting to toss everything in the laundry after a single wear, many items don’t need to be washed that frequently. Below is a general guide, but always check the care label first — this is the best way to preserve the fabric, fit, and finish of your clothing. Only dry clean garments when the label explicitly says so; unnecessary dry cleaning can degrade materials over time.

General clothing care guidelines
T-Shirts & Tank Tops: These should be washed after every wear, as they sit close to the skin and absorb sweat and oils.
Shirts (Blouses, Button-Ups): Wash after 1–2 wears, depending on activity level and climate.
Dresses: Typically need washing after 1–3 wears, especially if worn directly against the skin.
Pants (Dress Pants, Casual Trousers): These can be washed after 2–3 wears.
Jeans: Levi’s recommends washing after every 10 wears to maintain shape and reduce environmental impact. Washing less frequently can reduce the carbon footprint by up to 75%.
Blazers, Suit Jackets, & Structured Outerwear: Clean after 4–5 wears, or as needed if visibly soiled or odorous.
Coats & Seasonal Outerwear: Spot clean as needed and do a thorough wash or dry clean once per season.
Sleepwear: Wash after 2–3 wears, depending on personal preference and skin sensitivity.
Workout Clothes & Swimwear: Should be washed after every use, as fabrics like elastane and nylon trap sweat and bacteria. Wash inside-out in cold water with mild detergent (consider adding a splash of white vinegar) and air dry to prolong elasticity and fit.
Wool Sweaters: Wool is naturally odor-resistant and self-regulating. Airing between wears is often enough. Wash after 5 wears, or even just once per season if the garment is well maintained.
Bras: These are often over-washed. Unless you've been sweating heavily, hand wash after every 2–3 wears. Over-washing can break down elasticity and reduce longevity.

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help! I accidentally put the wrong address

Please contact us immediately if you notice an error in the shipping address during checkout. If your order hasn’t shipped yet, we’ll do our best to make the correction in time. However, once the item has been dispatched, we are no longer responsible for the package or any delivery issues arising from an incorrect address.

In such cases, we recommend calling the carrier directly to request a delivery change — this must be done by the recipient listed on the shipping label. Unfortunately, we are unable to make those changes on your behalf.

We do not offer replacements, reshipments or refunds for orders lost due to address errors. It is the customer’s responsibility to ensure all shipping details are accurate at the time of purchase. No exceptions.
Packages returned to us due to an "Invalid Address" will be subject to a $5 restocking fee.

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what's included with my items?

We hand package every shipment with love and care. We aim to use as much sustainable packaging as possible, which is why we purchase our packaging from Eco Enclose and use biodegradable ink. We also use tissue paper and protective filler.

Please email us if you prefer individual wrapping per each product. We do not include invoices in any of our shipments. They are all electronically emailed.

* if your purchase is a gift and you would like a little extra love or a hand written note please email cristina@soareyoupdx.com immediately after your purchase.

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